Love is most beautiful feeling for both man and woman, It comes with lot of expectations from both sides. We have been hearing several definitions of it. Experiencing love and hearing about it, are two completely different points. Even love experiences vary human to human. But there are some aspects, which you should definitely hate in love. These are..

NARCISSISM

There are two kind of narcissist personality, first is, “I m superior” and second kind is ” I m victim” and both are harmful for relationship. If your partner, Everytime complains or degrades you, it’s clear signal that he or she has narcissist personality and you should leave this kind of harmful relationship. Even if he or she falls in victim narcissism category, you don’t need to fix anything for them because it doesn’t make any difference in their lives. Remember one thing! real victims don’t trouble others.

OVER DEPENDENCY

If you are in a relationship, where your partner is depending on you, for every single thing, then you need to hate this behavior. Over Depending partner is just like parasite, who tries to take as much as he/she could get from you, from your emotions to your money, I can’t say, if they are good or bad person but they are definitely not right match for you. Relationship must have interdependency , which allows both partners to share everything equally from household chores to EMIs.

AVOIDING BEHAVIOUR

How much it sucks, when the one you love, starts avoiding you or paying no attention at all. This behavior has many reasons but still it’s not tolerable in a relationship. If you feel , avoided by your partner, first ask him/her the reason of this kind of behaviour, if he or she is not interested to answer and continue this behavior, then don’t bother them again.

DISRESPECT

Mutual respect forms strong foundation for love. Respect is one of the important elements of love, if you ever feel disrespected by your partner or you are feeling as if your self respect is suppressed by him/her then you must hate this thing, self respect is much more important than any disrespectful relationship. You don’t need to beg love by putting your self esteem aside. Disrespectful relationship is not love but a kind of abuse which is not good for you and your future.

CHEATING

Cheating is always a choice not a mistake, well there are lots of people who have faced cheating and this situation breaks a person emotionally and mentally, people can’t cope with it easily. The act of cheating, must not be tolerable, the cheater not only cheats on his/her partner but also on other person. Remember! the person who truly loves you, has always a reason to love you more and be with you, but cheaters can’t be satisfied even if you are one of the most amazing persons of this world.

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